Tools to help you, where you are

These aren't quizzes or checklists for the sake of it. Each tool was built for a specific moment in the grief journey — to help you see more clearly, not to tell you what to decide.

All tools are free. No account required.

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Tools to help you, where you are.
For preparing

Quality of Life Assessment

A structured way to look clearly at your pet's daily experience. Based on the HHHHHMM scale — adapted for compassionate use, not clinical scoring. For when you need something honest to hold onto.

Takes about 10–15 minutes

For remembering

Memory Journal

A place to gather the small things — the habits, the moments, the details you want to keep. Write as little or as much as you need. Nothing here is graded.

Your entries are only on your device — never sent to a server

For the hardest question

Is It Time? Reflective Guide

Not a calculator. Not a test. A set of questions to help you see more clearly — the kind you might talk through with a trusted vet, but can also sit with alone.

This guide does not tell you what to decide. Only you and your vet know your pet.

For planning ahead

Aftercare Decision Planner

Home burial, cremation, communal or private — each option has emotional, practical, and logistical dimensions. This walkthrough helps you understand what each means before you have to decide.

For the long road

Grief Timeline Tracker

Grief doesn't follow a schedule, but tracking how you feel over time can show you that things do shift — even when it doesn't feel that way yet. A gentle daily check-in.

For processing

Letter to Your Pet

Sometimes what you need is to say the things you didn't get to say, or to say them again. A private space to write to your pet. Grief counselors often recommend this.

Write a letter →
For vet appointments

Vet Conversation Prep

Going into a hard conversation with your vet? A checklist of questions to consider — about prognosis, pain management, quality of life, and the end-of-life process.

For families

Children's Grief Guide

Age-appropriate scripts and approaches for talking with children about pet loss. Covers different developmental stages — toddlers through teenagers.

For an ongoing memorial

Heart Map

Light a candle and drop a pin for your pet, anywhere in the world. See memorials lit by other families, leave a flower, or a gentle comment.

Light a candle →
For being understood 68 posts

Discussion Board

Ask a question, share a hard day, or read what other people going through the same thing have written. No account required.

Join the conversation →
For saying goodbye together

Virtual Funeral

Hold a small online ceremony with the people who loved them too — wherever they are.

Plan a ceremony →

Need more support?

These tools are a starting point — not a replacement for real support. If you're struggling, reaching out to a grief counselor or community can make a real difference.